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I want to decline an invite without notifying the organiser

The organiser usually wants to know if you are coming. Silent declines work but often create more noise than they save.

Try this first

  1. 1Open the invite instead of clicking Decline directly in the list. You will see 'do not send a response'.
  2. 2A silent decline removes the meeting from your calendar without a mail back. Their overview stays on 'no response'.
  3. 3Better: pick 'tentative' or 'decline with comment' and add one line of context. Saves back-and-forth.
  4. 4Do not auto-decline via a calendar rule; you will miss updates to meetings you do want.

When to bring us in

No escalation needed; this is preference and etiquette.

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